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Healing Field:
Torn Down to Build Up

Your Safety is Job One.

A space for encouragement, personal growth, and faith-based reflection β€” built for survivors, offered freely.

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"Your life does not begin when everything is perfect. It begins when you decide to participate in it."

β€” Dr. Nabiyah Baht Yehuda, Sowing Into Your Own Field

You Were Not Made for This Pain

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Get Help Now

Crisis hotlines, text & chat options, and local help near you.

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My Healing

Affirmations, breathing exercises, think clearly tools, financial basics, and your private journal.

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Start Your Restoration

Free chapters from Sowing Into Your Own Field by Dr. Nabiyah β€” for your personal healing journey.

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Find Resources

Shelters, food pantries, legal aid, counseling, churches, and more β€” near you.

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Support & Events

Support groups, community events, and workshops where you belong.

What Support Can Do for You

Connecting with others who understand your experience is one of the most powerful steps in healing. Here is what community and support offer:

  • You are reminded that what happened to you is not your fault
  • You gain access to people who have walked a similar road and found freedom
  • You learn practical tools for safety planning, decision-making, and rebuilding
  • You find faith-based encouragement that does not shame or blame
  • You discover that healing is not only possible β€” it is your right
  • You build a network of accountability and belonging
  • You access information about housing, legal options, and financial independence

A Message From Dr. Nabiyah

Many people have no problem supporting others β€” sowing into a cause, a ministry, their children's future. That is honorable. But there is a question often overlooked: What about you?

This space was created for those who have quietly forgotten themselves. Not all at once, and not intentionally. Life pulls on you. Without realizing it, you begin to move to the side of your own life.

But beloved β€” you are not naked. You are covered with creativity, ability, and your own kind of beauty. You were not made for abuse. Love is not abuse. You were created for love.

Your story is my story.

β€” Dr. Nabiyah Baht Yehuda, Transformation Coach & Founder, The Chamber Room Experience

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Β© 2026 The Chamber Room Experience Β· Not a substitute for emergency services or professional counseling.

Your Safety Matters. Your Safety is Job One.

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1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE)

TTY: 1-800-787-3224

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Crisis Text Line

Text with a trained crisis counselor β€” free, confidential, available 24/7. Good option if you cannot speak out loud.

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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

For anyone in emotional distress or mental health crisis β€” not just suicidal thoughts. Free, confidential, available 24/7.

Call or text 988
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Florida Domestic Violence Hotline

Statewide resources, local shelter referrals, and safety planning across Florida.

1-800-500-1119
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Words of Truth for Your Journey

These words are seeds. Read them aloud β€” there is power in the sound of your own voice.

Come Back to Yourself

When the world feels too loud, these exercises help you return to this moment β€” calm, steady, and grounded.

4–7–8 Breathing

Calms the nervous system. Use during anxiety, panic, or overwhelm. Repeat 2–4 times.

  1. Sit or lie down comfortably. Close your eyes if it feels safe.
  2. Breathe out completely through your mouth with a soft whoosh.
  3. Breathe in quietly through your nose for 4 counts.
  4. Hold your breath gently for 7 counts.
  5. Breathe out fully through your mouth for 8 counts.
  6. Repeat 3 more times. Notice calm beginning to settle in.

Box Breathing

Creates steadiness and balance. Used by first responders. Equal counts in every direction.

  1. Sit with feet on the floor. Relax your shoulders.
  2. Breathe in through your nose for 4 counts.
  3. Hold gently for 4 counts.
  4. Breathe out slowly for 4 counts.
  5. Hold empty for 4 counts.
  6. Repeat 4 cycles. Let your body soften a little more with each one.

5–4–3–2–1 Grounding

Brings you back to the present moment. Uses your five senses as anchors.

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Things you can SEE

Look around β€” a color, a shape, a window, a texture.

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Things you can TOUCH

Feel the floor, your clothing, a surface near you.

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Things you can HEAR

Your breath, outside sounds, the quiet.

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Things you can SMELL

Coffee, fresh air, lotion, the room around you.

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Thing you can TASTE

Notice any taste. Breathe. You are here. You are safe.

Planning Your Next Safe Step

Trauma affects how we think. These prompts help you slow down, get clear, and plan wisely β€” one step at a time.

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Before You Decide Anything

Ask yourself these questions first:

  • Am I physically safe right now?
  • Is this a decision I need to make today, or can it wait?
  • Who is one trusted person I can talk to?
  • Am I making this decision from fear, or from clarity?
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Safety Planning Basics

A safety plan is a personal guide you prepare in advance:

  • Identify a safe place you can go in an emergency
  • Keep important documents accessible (ID, birth certificate, etc.)
  • Have a bag packed with essentials if needed
  • Memorize 2–3 phone numbers of safe people
  • Know your local shelter address
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Documents to Gather

When it is safe to do so, try to secure:

  • Photo ID / Driver's license
  • Social Security card
  • Birth certificate (yours and children's)
  • Passport if available
  • Bank account information
  • Insurance cards and medical records
  • Any protective orders or legal documents
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Talking to Your Children

Age-appropriate, honest, and reassuring:

  • Reassure them they are loved and not at fault
  • Keep explanations simple and calm
  • Let them know you are working to keep everyone safe
  • Maintain routine as much as possible
  • Watch for changes in behavior and seek school support
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Know Your Legal Options

You have rights. Start here:

  • Protective / restraining orders are available in every state
  • You can file for one at your local courthouse β€” often same day
  • Legal aid organizations offer free help
  • Domestic violence advocates can accompany you to court
  • Immigration status does not prevent you from seeking help
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One Step at a Time

You do not have to figure everything out today.

  • Write down one small action you can take this week
  • Share it with one trusted person
  • Celebrate every step forward, no matter how small
  • Progress is not linear β€” and that is okay

What to Do Next

Leaving is one of the bravest things you can do. The days and weeks that follow can feel overwhelming. Here is a gentle guide for the road ahead.

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Immediate Housing

  • Contact a local shelter β€” most are free and do not require an appointment
  • The National DV Hotline (1-800-799-7233) can refer you to a shelter tonight
  • Many shelters allow children and pets
  • You do not need to have a plan to enter a shelter
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Your Health

  • Seek medical attention if you have any injuries β€” even ones that seem minor
  • Trauma affects the body even when injuries are not visible
  • Many clinics offer free or sliding-scale care for survivors
  • Mental health support is as important as physical health
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Digital Safety

  • Change all passwords on a new device or account if possible
  • Check your phone for tracking apps β€” many shelters can help with this
  • Turn off location sharing on your phone and social media
  • Consider a new phone number if your current one is monitored
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Emotional Recovery

  • What you feel is valid β€” grief, relief, fear, and hope can all exist at once
  • Healing is not linear β€” some days will feel harder than others
  • You are not starting over β€” you are starting from experience
  • Community, counseling, and faith can all be part of your healing
  • You are not alone on this road

Investing in Your Future

Financial independence is one of the most powerful tools for lasting safety. These are first steps β€” not all at once, just one at a time.

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Open Your Own Bank Account

A bank account in your name alone is the foundation. Many banks offer free checking accounts. Community banks and credit unions are often welcoming to survivors starting fresh.

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Know What You Have and What You Owe

Request a free credit report at AnnualCreditReport.com. Understanding your credit history is the first step to rebuilding it. You can dispute any accounts you did not open.

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Build a Simple Budget

Write down what comes in and what goes out. Even a rough picture gives you power and clarity. Start with three categories: needs (shelter, food, transport), savings, and everything else.

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Pay Yourself First

Even saving $5 a week is a declaration: I matter enough to prepare for my future. Set aside something β€” no matter how small β€” before paying anything else. This builds the habit of self-investment.

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Access Available Benefits

You may qualify for SNAP (food assistance), TANF (cash assistance), Medicaid, housing vouchers, and childcare subsidies. A local social services office or DV advocate can help you apply. These are not handouts β€” they are resources you have access to.

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Explore Education and Employment

Vocational training, GED programs, community college, and job placement programs exist specifically for survivors. Many are free. Your potential did not disappear β€” it has been waiting.

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Protect What You Build

As you rebuild, guard your financial information. Keep documents secure, check your accounts regularly, and do not share financial access with anyone who has harmed you. What you build is yours.

"Sowing into yourself is not a crime β€” it is the wisest investment you can make." β€” Dr. Nabiyah Baht Yehuda

Rest in His Presence

Let these sounds carry you into stillness. No striving, no performing β€” just you and the peace that passes all understanding.

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I Need Your Voice

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Saltwater Psalms

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Yeshua Saves Me

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Sanctuary Pine

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I AM 4 U

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Whispers of Heaven Over You

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Sanctuary Pine (Vocals)

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My Psalm 91

Rest for Your Soul

Sound has the power to calm the body and open the heart. Find a quiet moment, close your eyes, and breathe.

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Paths of Ease

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Gentle Bamboo Flute

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Flute & Rain

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Soft Sounds of Rain

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Native American Flute

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Rain Meditation

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Birds & Piano

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Peace Meditation

A Space Just for You

Words are seeds. Writing them is one of the bravest things you can do for yourself. No one sees what you write here.

Your writing is not saved when you close the page β€” for your privacy and safety.

Choose a prompt to begin:

  • What is one true thing I know about myself today?
  • What seeds have been planted in my life β€” and which ones do I want to keep watering?
  • If I could say one thing to myself at my lowest moment, what would it be?
  • What does safety feel like to me? When have I felt it?
  • What is one small step I can take toward my own healing this week?
  • Who told me I wasn't enough β€” and why do I choose not to believe that anymore?
  • What would my life look like if I truly invested in myself?
  • What am I most afraid of right now β€” and what would faith say about that fear?

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Introduction

Sowing Into Your Own Field: Investing in You

Second Edition, 2026 Β· Dr. Nabiyah Baht Yehuda

This book was written for those who have quietly forgotten themselves. Within these pages, you will find tools you can begin using today. Not when things slow down. Not when everything feels aligned. Today.

Many people have no problem supporting others. They will sow into a cause, a ministry, their children's future, or help someone get back on their feet. That is honorable. It is necessary. It reflects generosity and care.

But there is a question that is often overlooked. What about you? What have you invested into your own life? Into your dream, your business, your healing?

This book was written for those who have quietly forgotten themselves. Not all at once, and not intentionally. Life begins to pull on you. Responsibilities consume your time, your energy, and your attention. Without realizing it, you begin to move to the side of your own life.

This book is for the one who has said, "I can wait." The one who has told themselves, "I will get to it later." Let me say this plainly: we do not have the time we think we do.

"Who told you that you were naked?" β€” Beresheet (Genesis)

Somewhere along the way, a voice suggested that you were not enough. That voice may have come through a parent, a painful experience, or even the whisper of an enemy. Regardless of where it came from, it was received. And over time, it was believed.

But here is the truth: just because something was spoken to you does not mean it belongs to you. You have the authority to reject every lie that has tried to define you.

Your story is not separate from mine. Your story is my story. And this may be the moment where you begin again.

Chapter 1

It's Your Time

"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we shall reap, if we do not lose heart." β€” Galatians 6:9

A call to stop delaying. Your dream has not left you. This chapter invites you to recognize the moment you are living in and decide to move.

Have you felt as if your dream was taking a long walk without you? Has it seemed so far away that you thought it would never happen? Sometimes we put things off until "later" because we think we have time.

I want to encourage you right there in that place. There is a reward for showing up. There is a reward for being consistent. Think about Harriet Tubman β€” when she invited others to leave, there was no age requirement. The invitation was to whosoever will. All you had to do was be tired of life as it was and be able to focus on the journey to freedom.

We do not need to know how much time we have left. All we need to do is be aware of the moment when it is time to move, step out, step up, or speak out.

"Do not go gentle into that good night... Rage, rage against the dying of the light." β€” Dylan Thomas

This poem screams: it is your time. Now it is time to go to the next level. Dial in and notice the shift in this season for you. Suit up. We are waiting for you.

I am a field of dreams.
I am alive with faith.
I have been seeded with promise
and rained on with truth.
I am a field of dreams,
and there are so many who, with bated breath,
are waiting for me to become.
I will not forget me, the dreamer.
I cannot forget me, the dreamer.
I intentionally remember the seeds in me.
I am the field of my dreams.

β€” "Field of Dreams" Β© 2017 Dr. Nabiyah Baht Yehuda. All rights reserved.

✦ Pause & Reflect

  • What seeds have been planted in your life through the words of others?
  • Write down two things spoken over you that influenced how you see your value.
  • Are those seeds producing the kind of harvest you want in your life?

Chapter 2

Who Told You That? The Voices

"To hear is natural. To discern is intentional. I choose the voice that aligns with truth." β€” Dr. Nabiyah

Explores the difference between voices of distraction and voices of clarity β€” and how to discern which one is leading your life.

The interesting thing about being you is that no one can beat you at being you. A sad and common reality is that people walk around their whole lives thinking that they are someone else. My question is: Who told you that? What voices are you listening to?

There are many voices within us, and not all of them are meant to lead. Some are loud, urgent, and demanding β€” these are the voices of distraction. They speak in pressure, comparison, doubt, and noise. Then there is the voice of clarity. It is not always the loudest, but it is steady.

Discernment is the ability to tell the difference β€” the discipline of slowing down long enough to ask: What is this voice producing in me? Distraction produces anxiety. Clarity produces peace, direction, and movement.

"Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought." β€” 2 Corinthians 10:5

You are not naked. You are covered with an array of creativity, ability, and your own kind of beauty. You were not made from a cookie cutter β€” do not dare expect to look like, sound like, or think like someone else.

✦ Pause & Reflect

  • What voices have influenced how you see yourself β€” were they encouraging your true self or shaping you into someone else's expectation?
  • Write down one belief about yourself that may have come from someone else's opinion rather than your own truth.
  • What would it look like to choose your wholeness with the same passion you use to support everyone else?

Chapter 3

Sowing to Harvest

"Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap." β€” Galatians 6:7

Every word carries the nature of a seed. This chapter explores corruptible vs. incorruptible seeds, stewardship of finances and rest, and the blueprint of Genesis 2:15.

Every word that enters your life carries the nature of a seed. Some are planted intentionally, while others fall into your mind unnoticed. Over time, those seeds shape the way you think, the way you interpret your experiences, and ultimately the way you live.

The question becomes not only what has been spoken to you, but what have you agreed with? Every seed requires agreement to take root and grow.

Rest Is Part of the Investment

Many people do not see rest as productive, but rest is not a reward. It is a requirement. When you rest, you restore. When you restore, you are able to continue building, creating, and becoming.

Pay Yourself First

In Genesis 2:15, God placed Adahm in the garden and told him to dress it and keep it. To abahd β€” to work, to cultivate. To shamar β€” to guard and protect. Whatever has been given to you, you are called to steward it with intention. Saving is part of guarding. Rest is part of guarding. Discipline is part of guarding.

✦ Pause & Reflect

  • What words have been repeatedly spoken over your life that you have come to believe?
  • Have you been working the ground of your dreams? Have you been protecting them?
  • When was the last time you truly rested β€” not just physically, but in your soul?

Chapter 4

If Not Now When?

"He who observes the wind will not sow, and he who regards the clouds will not reap." β€” Ecclesiastes 11:4

Tackles delay, procrastination, and limiting beliefs. F.E.A.R. unpacked. The concept of "It's in the queue."

There is a question that quietly follows many of us through life: If not now, when? It waits in the background, showing up in moments of stillness and honesty. Many people live as though time is unlimited. But delay has a cost.

Entanglement happens when your thoughts, fears, and beliefs wrap themselves so tightly around you that forward movement feels impossible. At the root are limiting beliefs: I'm not smart enough. I'm too old. What if it doesn't work. These are not facts. They are agreements. And anything you have agreed with can be challenged.

F.E.A.R. β€” Unpacked

Fear can mean False Evidence Appearing Real β€” or it can mean Face Everything And Rise. Faith Eliminates All Resistance. Which version has been shaping your thinking?

It's in the Queue

A queue is a sequence of assignments waiting in temporary storage for the recipient. That recipient is you. Most people think they are waiting for something. In reality, something may already be waiting for them. Align yourself. Position yourself to receive.

✦ Pause & Reflect

  • What excuses have you been using to delay your next step? Are these real barriers, or familiar reasons that keep you comfortable?
  • Which limiting belief has held you back the longest? Who told you it was true?
  • Write down one thing you will act on this week β€” not everything, just one.

Chapter 5

Heaven's Directives

"But seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." β€” Matthew 6:33

The farming metaphor applied to life. Dr. Nabiyah's personal testimony. Anchor Thoughts, neural pathways, self-sabotage, and the Seven Steps to Alignment.

Just imagine yourself as land that must be tilled. Tilling means digging, stirring, and overturning. Sometimes the soil must be improved before anything healthy can grow. If bitterness or unforgiveness lives in your soil, flourishing becomes difficult.

Sunlight represents the words you allow in. Good drainage means releasing what no longer serves you β€” draining out all negativity so you can be free.

Anchor Thoughts

An anchor thought is one you choose in advance and deliberately place in your mind so that when pressure or fear shows up, your mind does not drift. Examples:

  • "I will stay the course."
  • "I am prepared for this moment."
  • "God has already equipped me for what lies ahead."
  • "I will not talk myself out of my purpose."

The Seven Steps to Alignment

  1. Clarity of instruction β€” Articulate what you are called to do.
  2. Honest assessment β€” Identify what your habits actually are, not what you intend.
  3. Identify the gap β€” Where do your actions contradict your direction?
  4. Necessary endings β€” Stop reinforcing what conflicts with your calling.
  5. Replacement, not removal β€” Put something in place of what you stop.
  6. Repetition β€” Alignment is built through consistent practice.
  7. Accountability β€” Have something that keeps you aware.

✦ Pause & Reflect

  • Is there bitterness or unforgiveness still sitting in your soil? What would it look like to release it?
  • What vision has God placed in your heart that you have not written down?
  • What is your anchor thought for this season? Write it down and commit it to memory.

Chapter 6

Purpose

"I am the way, the truth, and the life." β€” Yeshua (John 14:6)

Purpose is revealed through alignment and action. Vertical alignment, guarding your field through discernment, and conversations as seed carriers.

Purpose is not a mystery that suddenly appears β€” it is revealed through alignment, responsibility, and consistent action. It is not found by waiting; it is uncovered by engaging.

Purpose is the consistent expression of who you are becoming, revealed through what you are willing to take responsibility for, develop, and sustain over time.

Guarding Your Field

Distractions do not always come disguised as something negative. Often, they present themselves as good ideas. Before you move on a new idea, ask: Does this align with what I have been instructed to do right now?

Conversations are carriers of perspective. They introduce ideas, reinforce beliefs, and normalize behaviors. Guard your conversations. Guard your field.

You are not waiting for purpose to arrive. You are building the capacity to recognize and carry it. Purpose is not something you chase β€” it is something you become aligned with.

✦ Pause & Reflect

  • What is the consistent expression of who you are becoming right now?
  • Are there good ideas competing for your attention that may be pulling you away from your true assignment?
  • What one thing will you protect, develop, and sustain this season as an act of purposeful stewardship?

Final Encouragement

A Word From Dr. Nabiyah

Know your value. It took me a long time to know what that looked like and how to feel comfortable with feeling like I was really worth something.

I had to rethink possible. I had to take those baby steps to a door that was standing wide open. The closer I got to the door, the more energized I felt. The more energy I had, the quicker my steps became until I found myself running. I looked around and I was on the other side of the door. I was free.

My story is filled with many tears and battles that were won and lost, yet I still have hope in the form of a seed. It is incorruptible.

My prayer is that you use your words to align with the word of faith that is able to cause you to stand in the day of battles, trials, doubts, and losses. I pray that you are able to re-stand, re-think, and re-focus on your goal.

In Ezekiel 37, just before the dry bones came together, there was a noise β€” a sound. I want to say to you that it is the sound of your own voice that will be able to cause your dry bones to come together and live.

Press, pursue, and persist until your vision has flesh and bone standing before you and you finally exhale.

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